i like a guy alot...what to do??!!
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i like a guy alot...what to do??!!
| Fri, 11-11-2005 - 3:28pm |
I've known this guy for about 3 years now, but we just recently started to get to know each other better. A year ago, I confessed to him that I had a crush on him. He asked why I didn't tell him earliar? I told him I didn't think it'd matter and that I didn't feel he reciprocated. He replyed by saying "funny you say that because as we were getting to know each other better, it seemed like you pulled away. I wanted to get to know you better too." At the time I told him my feelings, he was with someone. We recently had dinner together about a month ago and it reaffirmed my feelings for him. He is now single and told me that he was never into his ex girlfriend, and rambled on about how he's ready to get married and wants to find "the one." When asked how I deal with being single, I replied by saying 'You get used to it, it becomes a way of life." Then he became very quiet all of a sudden for the rest of the night, and said he was on an emotional roller coaster. After that, we hung out once more in a group setting. I've been wanting him to ask me out, but he hasn't since then. What should I do? This is a guy I've always wondered about... should I say something to him, or should I wait for him to say something? What if he's not into me like I am into him? Should I risk being shot down?? =/

Yes, please say something. I don't know whether he wants to take you out on a date or not, but you will never know because this guy isn't bringing up the subject.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.