I hate rejection :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2004
I hate rejection :(
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Tue, 08-09-2005 - 3:29pm
Hoping for a new perspective here...
I met a group of guys on the weekend when at a bar with friends...hit it off with one of them and talked for most of the night, though I talked to his friends and other guys who approached me (not trying to be flirtatious, just friendly). He mentioned several times that he'd like to get together this week and I said "sure, let's see how it goes" or something like that. ANyways, then he says he'd like to exchange numbers so i put his number on my phone and he asks me to call his phone too so he'd have my number as well. After this, we talk for a cpl of hours, during which he asks several times what day of the week is best for me and we decide on Thurs or Fri of this week to meet up. My friends were ready to leave for the night so I tell him bye and which point he asks my friends if we'd like to go out for food but we turn him down, due to exhaustion. ANyways, it's Tuesday now and still haven't heard from him so just wondering whether I'm justified in feeling rejected :(
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 5:22pm

No, I don't think you should feel "rejected" at all.

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