I have feelings but does he?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2006
I have feelings but does he?
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Fri, 03-17-2006 - 12:45am
I have been best friends with my now room mate...i met her brother last year..when i first seen him i was attracted to him.. and i wanted to get to know him better...well his sister told me that he told her i was beautiful and all that. anyways..we have been talking for about a year now...he comes over to see me all the time.. he always hugs and kisses me.. and not in the friendly type of way...i think he flirts with me.. he tickles me or just goof around and i guess wrestle... makes little *comments* he stares at me alot. he calls me everyday sometimes more than once..we have had sex twice... he took his necklace off his neck and gave it to me... and he actually gave me the shirt off his back.. he said the necklace and shirt was for christmas.. he has told his sister that he has feelings for me...and cares about me alot.. i guess its just had for me to believe..i dont she she would lie to me....when we were on the phone last week *I loan him money sometimes* he said he felt bad asking his friend...then he said girlfriend for money...so do u think that he does have feelings for me or is it just wishful thinking on my part?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
Fri, 03-17-2006 - 6:24am
Wow this guy is totally using you for sex and money! Apparently you have no idea how cheap and skanky he sounds when you describe him. Why do you let a guy use you like that? I think you need to work on your self-esteem. Iri
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Fri, 03-17-2006 - 6:44am

What exactly are you getting out of this relationship? He gives you his shirt and necklace and calls that a Christmas gift? And then he borrows money from you? It doesn't sound like he's taking you out or treating you right.


This relationship is very beneficial to him, but it is beneficial to you?


Kerry