I hope its not too late

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Registered: 12-01-2013
I hope its not too late
Sun, 12-01-2013 - 9:17pm

HEy board:

I've been dating a wonderful woman for several months.  She wanted to take things slow and I agreed to this.  It was hard to be around her because I am so physically attracted to her.  Even when we speak on the phone I can feel the hair on the back of my neck standing up.  I have never experiened anything like this.  So finally after months of waiting, we finally made love for the first time last week.  Now I consider myself an excellent lover and have left many women begging for more and unable to go a second round with me.  However with this woman she not only kept up with me but she completely drained me... I felt something in the back of my head pop while we were making love.  We went several times throughout the night and it was amazing.  I even pulled her close to my to cuddle where our legs intertwined.  It was beautiful.  I had not expected to like her this much but I do. I'm used to being in control but now I feel out of control with this woman.  I have developed strong feelings for her even before we made love and now that we finally made love she was everything I could ever want.  The problem is that I am not scared of her and scared of being hurt that I didn't call her the next day.  She called me and left a messgae.  A few hours later she left a text message. I ignored both her phone call and her text message.  It's been a week since we made love and I have not called her.  I fear I may have lost her.  I appreciate your suggestions.  To the men who respond have you ever felt something pop in the back of your head while making love?  Also why do I feel the hair on the back of my neck stand up when I speak to her?