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I knew this was going to happen!!
| Sun, 10-23-2005 - 7:14pm |
I have developed strong feelings for my friend. He has expressed that he has feelings for me too. The problem is that he's just gotten out of a horrible long term relationship and is still pretty upset over it. What should I do? My instints tell me to keep my foot on the brakes until he's "over" his ex. Should I just be a good friend and be there for him if he needs someone to talk to? How can I help him get over his past?

Trust your instincts. His past is his to deal with, not yours. Remember you are not his counselor, just a friend. He has to defeat the demons on his own.
If you want something with him, I don't think now is the time.
Trust your instincts.