I know i'm thinking too much

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Registered: 07-09-2004
I know i'm thinking too much
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Mon, 03-20-2006 - 2:14pm
I know I'm thinking way too much... but... last date with him (2nd date), his plane was delayed so he arrived home late. He called me and said that he'd be in the shower so he had left the front door unlock and told me to help myself in, just in case he was still in the shower. Is this saying anything? I know I'm driving myself crazy thinking too much. I guess I just like him!!
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 3:12pm
Well, a second date in his home and him in the shower and with the door unlocked and saying "help yourself in" should tell you something, you know. I'd wait till date some more to pop in in his home with him in shower, but that's just me. If you like him and are willing then go ahead.
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Registered: 01-12-2005
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 7:19pm

All it says, if anything at all, is that he's a casual and comfortable person. Really,

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Registered: 07-09-2004
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 11:08pm
Well at first I didn't think ANYTHING of it, but then last night it just suddenly occured to me... maybe it says something... but if anything, what?
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Registered: 03-01-2006
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 3:01am
Well what do you think it means? What occured to you, what do you think it could possibly mean? You obviously have some idea. I must admit that I wouldnt think it says anything at all other than let yourself in when you get to mine but then again, Im not the sharpest tool in the kit.
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Registered: 03-14-2006
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 6:43am
Clara_doll - you sound so sweet and young. To an 'ol weathered gal like me, I think he's seeing how bold you may be. Maybe you'd peek in the shower or better yet, join him. He's just testing the waters, so to speak. Be careful though, are you ready for that so soon? Do you know enough about him to feel truly safe? Be sure to do a check on him. And don't forget - have fun and be careful.
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 8:43pm
Honey, work that imagination. A man who you hardly know invites you to his home on a second date and he says "I left the door unlocked so you can get in because I might be in the shower". Its possible that he's wanting to test the waters to se how far he can go with you. In other words he wants to get laid.