I know its wrong

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Registered: 08-03-2005
I know its wrong
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Wed, 03-14-2007 - 12:12am
well its me again...I have posted some posts before...but I just have a question to ask like everyone elce...I am currently in a relationship....I think I love my b/f.....But Im not sure if I know what love is....I have been talking to this guy I was with before him...and these feeling came back....I did not date the other guy just hung out and kissed and almost slept together..we aso have all these things in common and we both like each other....I really liked im and still do...and latley I have been thinking about him alott.....I spent the day with him the other day and I wanted to kiss him so bad....and hes been telling me the same thing...we did not sleep together or anything but I just cant help thinking about him.....And I dont know what will happen the next time were together...I feel like its wrong but then I dont.....what advise you any of you tell me.....I even tought about sneaking arround to see him cause I just cant stop thinking about him.....I just dont know....why am I feeling like this.....what should I do......sincerly confused......
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 8:18am

You'll know love when you have it.


But, here's the problem. You're with someone. It would not be fair to him if you ran around behind his back and cheated on him. If you have those feelings, you should probably break up with your boyfriend and let him find someone who really wants to be with him. This will free you up to be with the other guy. Good luck!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 2:08pm

blueeyes08...

Pianoguy agrees with Kerry (aka Brooklyn chick!).

End one relationship entirely before you set forth towards another.

Hurting others who are still "devoted to you" (quoting the old Everly Bros. song) is an unfair exchange in order to find a little bit of happiness for yourself!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 2:04pm
You are using this other guy to distract you from the relationship you are in. It's not fair to either guy.
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Registered: 02-09-2006
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 10:09am
It sounds like you are not in love with your current relationships.