I know what I should do but...
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I know what I should do but...
| Mon, 06-14-2004 - 11:07am |
Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. He was married when we started dating and that wasn't fun, in fact it was very messy and he kept leaving me and coming back etc. Still he got divorced last year and all was well-ish. I don't want to write a novel here so I'll stick to the main point: at the end of last year I went to pay my rent and discovered my cash card gone and account empty. The boyfriend (fiancee at the time) had looked at my pin-number and took the money. I went and found my boyfriend because I wanted the money back and we've been living together while he repays the money. He's absolutely intent on working things out but I'm not so sure. We're moving into separate places soon and I'm thinking...I dont know what I'm thinking. I just can't/won't make any decision on this so I'm in limbo, not really committing to one thing or the other. I'm also upset he couldn't tell me he was in such financial trouble... Ok that's it, just wondered if anyone else had been in a similar situation or what you think. Thanks x

What the heck are you thinking???? End this NOW and press charges!
Sheri
In answer to your other question...good question, I'm not sure. He hit rock bottom and did something awful and I wanted to help because I didn't want to see him get any lower.
Thanks again x
I did try to press charges when it happened but the police weren't too fussed because he'd only stolen £200-odd. Apparantly they concentrate on bigger amounts?
Thanks again x
There are reasons you are still involved with this guy...this board is a good place to examine them.
Hugs,
lightship
Thanks again x