I know this is wrong..

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2003
I know this is wrong..
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Fri, 04-16-2004 - 8:56pm
There is a cute guy who work for the company but not inside the company, well he is 36 yrs old. Has a blue eyes and he is kind of cute. He has always given me hints that he is attracted to me, I dont know if he is just teasing me or flirting with me, as all men like to flirt. He is the supervisor of the security officers from the company, so he only arrives at work once or twice a day to supervise. Im 32 yrs old, green eyes, light brown hair. He is a nice person. One problem though the guy is married no kids. But his wife works as a nurse at a USA hospital. She left the country to work there like 1 yr ago. He visited her this past January and then he returned , but his wife continues to work at a american hospital because she found a job there one year ago. He has given me hints that he would like to go out with me to go to the movies, etc. I know is so so wrong to go out with a married guy, but Im starting to feel attracted by this guy. My subsconsience wants to go out with him to the movies, what harm could it be unless he wants something more.. but my consience says no way, he is married even if his wife lives and works in another country.

Dont you think is odd that a married couple live apart from each other, because of work? I mean neither one moved out to live together, at this moment they are independent.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2003
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 9:01pm
You know it is wrong so why are you contemplating it? Married men are off limits! I mean, even if they do cheat on their spouses to be with you, they are still cheaters! As far as them being separated, I live on a military base and see lots of that daily. Some people can be apart when their jobs call for it, but why are you trying to justify what you want to do with that excuse? There are tons of single men out there, why pick someone who is married?