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I Need Advice....
| Wed, 10-19-2005 - 5:02pm |
Okay, so me and my boyfriend broke up. The reason is that he needs time to think things over. He wants to think about our relationship and it's future. He doesn't want to get hurt since he's afraid I might move away or something. He says that he promises that he will be back but he doesn't know when. He wants to be with me and he still says he loves me. He wants to talk to me and he wants me to keep in touch with him. I am having a promblem with understanding why he needs to think about us if he really wants things to work out. This doesn't make any sense to me and it is confussing me because it still feels like we are dating. WE do not see each other often, but so far we have talked a lot. What should I do? Should I wait for him to figure things out or should I forget about him all together and move on? Please help me!

How long were you together? What's the reason for the need for thought? Did something occur? A few more details might help pinpoint the advice we can give you...
I would back off a bit. Us girls have a tendency of chasing after guys when they ask for time or space. I would let him have his time but show him that you're going on and living your life. Lessen your calls, not to the point of never speaking with him, but to the point where you're not at his beck and call.
I truly believe that things that are meant to be will be. If you let him go a bit and he returns, then great. But if he doesn't, you know that his intentions may not have been as serious as you had hoped.
Hope this helps. Keep us posted...