I need advice!! PLEASE HELP!!

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Registered: 06-04-2004
I need advice!! PLEASE HELP!!
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Fri, 06-04-2004 - 8:55pm
I met this wonderful guy about 2 months ago. We both like each other. We would talk on the phone, he would come by and see me and all that other good stuff. After time went by I asked him if we would ever start dating. He told me that he can't be in a relationship with me because I ask too many questions. He said that it just would not work out. He said can't we just be friends. Of course after that I was hurt because I feel like I am falling in love with him. I wrote him a letter on how I felt about him and the situation. Again, he still says he can't be in a relationship with me. I'm confused because we act like we are together. If I call him he answers on the first ring, If I leave a message he calls me right back. He still comes and sees me. He says that he misses me, and we still hug and kiss. I am very very confuse about all this. I'm not too sure what is going through his mind. I really want to be with him. Is there anything I can do?? If anyone can give me some advice I would really really appreciate it. Thanks!!

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Registered: 12-10-2003
Fri, 06-04-2004 - 10:00pm
Unfortunately, it appears as if this young man doesn't want a relastionship, but he wants the perks that goes with one. If you can't be freinds w/out letting your emotions run high,,,,,,you can either continue & be confused or just move on. I know it'll be hard, but it'll get harder if you continue to want something that's not there.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 06-05-2004 - 9:11am
sky855...

Why is it so difficult for you to understand that the man ONLY WANTS FRIENDSHIP..not a relationship?

You want more than that, but HE DOESN'T!

And if he has told you that "you talk too much" (which, by the way, is pop hit from the 60s hit from a guy named Joe Jones)---BELIEVE HIM!

A little less conversation...and a little more listening...might make YOU more attractive to the men who enter your life in the future!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Sat, 06-05-2004 - 10:42am
Hello sky!

 
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Registered: 05-26-2004
Sun, 06-06-2004 - 9:01am
He wants to be friends.
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