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| Mon, 12-04-2006 - 12:44pm |
Hi everyone it is been long time I haven't been arround.
I need your help really seriously. I have been dating on and off this few months and I haven't been fortunate.
I have been dating a guy for two weeks, and we have been seen eachother almost everyday. I have never done this before he wants that way and i went for it. We talked about everything we had a blast with this guy and that was the reason I was vunerable to him. And i think I am in love with this guy and he told me he adore me, and he wants exclussively right away and I changed my mind for him and took his offer. He said he can't get enough of me, I am easy person to fall in love with and he won't let me do anything pay or upset...etc.
Just few day ago we spent great afternoon that is the day he said he adore me and is going to wait for me until I decise to be intimate with him and I thought he is the one I want. That night he told me he will call because of we were planning going the next day to the concert and I was waiting his phone call until late about 9:30 pm and i said Ia m going to bed I called him and I said " I was waiting for your call now I have to go to bed what time are we going to meet tommorow?" and said he will call after work because he got extra shift of work he needs to be at work and let me know what time for next day. And I said ok and he ask if I was upset because he didn't call and I said no Honestly I wasn't.
The next day said I have to work and we are not going to the concert and i said ok but he said he would call in the evening. He just said hi and that was it.
The next day called we had an appointment to go for hair cut etc.... and we did that I found out there was no contact or affection and I new somthing was up. He said he needs to to work. Next day called and he was moving to the other bigger apt and I went to help him and we had sex. And he wasn't himself no affection at all and i waitted until in the morning and I told him I want to talk to him.
I did ask what is going on and he said that evening when I told him he didn't call he felt I was angry or upset and he didn't like it and he is not happy because of the he he was yelling etc....I told him I wasn't mad or anything he took it seriously. As a reson I am sad today either yesterday. He called and appologize for not acting or tallking to me properly but nothing else he said he is going to call tonight. And I will see.
My question is what is my next move I dearly like him I wish I can fix this because no body treated me like him before. I do not want to lose him. What can I say when he calls? what questions would I will be asking?
Thanks any advice I will thankful.

I think that two weeks is nowhere NEAR long enough to make any decisions as to what a person is really like.
I think you are starting to get a more real picture of what he's like. Unfortunately, since you've slept with him already, you probably have lost much of your ability to evaluate and observe him objectively (at least that's what happens to me when I sleep with someone too soon). But do try to take a step back and observe his behavior from this point forward to see if it's really what you want.
Sheri