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| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 10:27am |
But all of a sudden the phone calls stopped comming everyday. He called me a week ago wed we talked and then said he had to go but would talk to me later. never called so i called him friday to see if he wanted to do anything ( i was currenlty at a freinds house drinking) he said he had to do some stuff but would call me back later. So i didnt call him at all the rest of the weekend, but he called me back on monday and we talked for a while and it ended again with a ill call you back later.
So i called him last night to see what he was up to later that night and the weekend...no reply!! What should i do?? Whats going on? the only thing that i can say in his defense right now is that he has done most of the calling.
please give me some ideas!! Thanks

You can think a million scenarios, like he's met someone else or he's busy at work, or he's left the planet- whatever. Sometimes people just lose interest. What they thought they wanted, or thought you were just didn't fit.
Go out and find another guy to date. If this guy calls, you can tell him you're busy and be busy. Don't go chasing him though, you'll just seem like a stalker.
But infatuation fades...and feelings aren't permanent......and if he's found someone else that inspires that "high" it'll last for a few weeks and he'll move on from her.
But basically, you two don't know one another...you settled quickly into "I'll make myself easily and convenientially available to you without obligation to you"...and that is not "dating" whatsoever.
Erin
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