I need help again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2007
I need help again.
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Fri, 06-08-2007 - 7:04pm
alrite so i got lots of help of what to do with this girl whos number i got while i was on vacation. Well all this help, and when i call i dont get an answer. Two calls and no answer. I left a message. no responce until today. she sends me a text message telling me she has gone to washington d.c to vist some family for a week and that she will call me when she gets back. But It seems to me like she just isnt interested and shes just buying time to get me off. what the hell am i to do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Fri, 06-08-2007 - 10:07pm

It would be silly of her to lie to you when you could just go back to the place where you initially met her (restaurant, right?) to see if she was really on vacation.

Will you still be around when she returns? It sounds like she will call you. If she wasnt' interested at all she would'nt have bothered to text you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2007
Sat, 06-09-2007 - 1:06am
Yea, but if i text her she doest text me back. Why wont she just answer the phone or call me. I hate text messages. Yea ill be around for a while. This is to damn confusing, its messing with my head. She needs to be more straight forward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2007
Sat, 06-09-2007 - 1:11am
Snafu this might sound hard to believe but where im at for vacation is west palm beach (ibis). I just looked at you information and said your from lake worth. just thought i would let you know. You have been a lot of help by the way, you can probably give some good spots to go to. Please keep on helpin. im lost in this situation.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2007
Sat, 06-09-2007 - 3:36am
I'm sorry, but I don't think she's interested at all. And even if she was a little bit, that wouldn't be enough for me, personally. She can't even bother to answer the phone. Why would you want someone who might sort of kind of maybe be interested in you? I want someone who's excited to see me again, you know? I would move on. You've already wasted enough time and energy on this girl. Blah to her.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2007
Sat, 06-09-2007 - 8:51am
yea i believe your rite. Thats the exact same feeling i was getting. Oh well like you said "blah her"
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 06-09-2007 - 10:38am
She may not want to incur roaming charges or she is one of those people who text these days instead of talking on the phone. I wouldn't discard her yet. Realistically, she doesn't even know you so I wouldnt place alot of responsibility on to her right now. As far as places to go, I am alot older than you so I don't know all the hot spots that you would probably enjoy. Pick up one of the free newspapers like City Link or New Times because they have listings for the clubs, bars and restaurants, as well as ads that display what will be going on at those places for the week. If you go online, you can try looking at the Palm Beach Post's or Sun-Sentinel's website (www.palmbeachpost.com or www.sunsentinel.com) for any info there. Good luck with this girl. She may call you when she returns.