I Need to Know If He's Interested
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I Need to Know If He's Interested
| Sun, 08-22-2004 - 9:29pm |
I made the first move and asked this guy out. Well, he told me that he already had plans...he even went in to detail as to what he had planned and with whom. However, he was very apologetic that he had plans and flattered that I was interested in going out w/him and he said that maybe we could plan for another time. So,I then gave him my number to give me a call when he was free. This was about 1 week ago and I haven't heard from him. However, when I saw him again, he let me know that his weekend didn't go so well and he made the comment that it could have been better (basically had he went out with me). Also, he went out of his way to get my attention several times that day and there was MAJOR eye contact between the two of us everytime we saw one another. I am not sure what is up with this guy besides the fact that he is in medical school and I know that it takes up a lot of his time. But couldn't he at least called me by to just chat?????? What's the deal???? Need advice ASAP!
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| Sun, 08-22-2004 - 11:25pm |
You've been pursued by an interested man before...he left you with no doubt that he was interested and you didn't have to ask anyone if he was interested. There was too much hemming and hawing when you asked him out and he never called you.
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 5:33am |
Thanks for the comment. However, it's not always that cut and dry to figure out if someone is interested or not. Especially if there are "mixed" signals. Not every situation is the same. Sure, men are typically easy to read, but this guy seems to have a little bit more of a mystery about him. My point, some questions are worth asking......
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 1:08pm |
He' a big boy - smart and daring enough to go to med school. Which means he's smart and daring enough to take the initiative this time around and ask you out.
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 8:25pm |
I think it is cut and dry...because if he's not chasing me, I'm not going to wait around, pining for him to pick up the phone. There are so many other guys out there and he knows it. An interested guy is going to make sure that no one else fills in your calendar.
| Tue, 08-24-2004 - 5:39am |
Not waiting around....trust me, I do have other friends and an active social life. I was just wondering why guys play the game of making someone think that they are interested, but not really knowing what moves to make for whatever reason. The signs of interest were there, but what happened? I thought that maybe I frightened him by making the first move of asking him out or something.....Oh well, his loss anyway if he doesn't know how to respond. Thanks for the comments.
