I need some advice for love 101

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2004
I need some advice for love 101
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Mon, 11-15-2004 - 11:04pm
There is this guy at my apartment complex that I think he's interested but I'm not sure. I met him at a pool party that the complex was having there was kareoke and I went up and sang and afterwards he complemented me and we started talking a bit about where we were from and little stuff like that. before that night I only saw him working there once or twice and we never really said anything to eachother. Now everytime we see eachother we say hi and I feel that he's flirting with me but I'm not sure because I've been wrong about this stuff before. recently we had a holloween party and I couldn't go but I went to pay my rent and he asked me if I was going to come, I said that I have other plans and couldn't come. He playfully said well, fine be that way. I'm really shy and not experienced at this at all but I really like him. I only see him once or twice a month for a short time to pay my rent and I really don't want to have the other employees know I'm trying to hit on him. How can I tell if he's really interested in me and how can I let him know I'm interested before it's too late?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 11:23pm
does he work there? nothing ventured nothing gained...ask him to coffee.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2004
Tue, 11-16-2004 - 7:28pm
Next time you see him... You could say, "Where have you been? I haven't seen you around lately." or Next time you see him when you pay your rent, ask him how the party was. Tell him you wish you could have made it. Ask if there was kareoke there and if he likes kareoke. If he does, tell him of some places you know of and maybe the two of you could go and have a couple of drink. I realize it's easier to give advice than to take it. But just tell yourself for that second, "You are not shy and why wouldn't he like me?"