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I need some opinion
| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 7:17pm |
Hello everyone!
I need your opinion before I do something I'd regret. Well, there is a guy (of course there is). I have known him for 8 months. We started dating but it didn't go anywhere ( not because I didn't want it...) He suggested remain friends. Oh, well...at least he was honest and didn't try to get me in bed. We remained friends with a little benefit....kissing. Every time we went out we ended up making out...no sex. After a while I met someone else and in 2 months we broke up....
Lets the story begin. The breaking up took 2 weeks during which I talked to my Friend every day and he knew about my situation with that guy. It was nice to vent. Very soon after my break up I slept with my Friend - no regrets. I REALLY could use some comfort. And it was twice good with someone I know well enough and have a good conection with.
I'd say I've always been atracted to him (friend) and after I slept with him attraction grew.
To make long story sort, we slept a few more times and it was a-m-a-i-z-i-n-g! And now I'm in love. He doesn't make an affort to be more than just friends. The decision that I slept with him was totally up to me, he didn't "get" me into bed. So I can't and I don't want to blame him for what happend between us.
I think about him evry sigle day. He went on vacation for 2 weeks and I started forgetting him. And tomorrow is his B-Day. I don't know if I should send him a card. I don't want us to be friends with benefits and I can't be just friends with him - it will kill me if I see him with someone else. On the other hand there is still hope in my heart....that one day we can be together:( If I send a card, as a nice thing to do he could ask me out...and can't say no....I'm weak, I'm sorry... I want to be with him so much but I can't handle FWB relationships any longer....What should I do?
I need your opinion before I do something I'd regret. Well, there is a guy (of course there is). I have known him for 8 months. We started dating but it didn't go anywhere ( not because I didn't want it...) He suggested remain friends. Oh, well...at least he was honest and didn't try to get me in bed. We remained friends with a little benefit....kissing. Every time we went out we ended up making out...no sex. After a while I met someone else and in 2 months we broke up....
Lets the story begin. The breaking up took 2 weeks during which I talked to my Friend every day and he knew about my situation with that guy. It was nice to vent. Very soon after my break up I slept with my Friend - no regrets. I REALLY could use some comfort. And it was twice good with someone I know well enough and have a good conection with.
I'd say I've always been atracted to him (friend) and after I slept with him attraction grew.
To make long story sort, we slept a few more times and it was a-m-a-i-z-i-n-g! And now I'm in love. He doesn't make an affort to be more than just friends. The decision that I slept with him was totally up to me, he didn't "get" me into bed. So I can't and I don't want to blame him for what happend between us.
I think about him evry sigle day. He went on vacation for 2 weeks and I started forgetting him. And tomorrow is his B-Day. I don't know if I should send him a card. I don't want us to be friends with benefits and I can't be just friends with him - it will kill me if I see him with someone else. On the other hand there is still hope in my heart....that one day we can be together:( If I send a card, as a nice thing to do he could ask me out...and can't say no....I'm weak, I'm sorry... I want to be with him so much but I can't handle FWB relationships any longer....What should I do?

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