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I need some opinions
| Fri, 07-02-2004 - 10:31am |
Hi to all,
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months now. The relationship is going ok, i guess. But there is just one mystery i cannot solve. He was the first to say i love you. After we had a talk he left. then he call back and said that he loves me. He respects me, adores me, treats me good, he is there for me. Sometimes i think he is more into me than i am into him. I have no problem with him calling me. He picks his phone regularly and if he doesn't he returns the call right away. I am so secured with him. My family likes him and I have met his family just once. when i am with him everything feels so right. it feels heavenly. we stare into each others eyes so deeply. This morning he called me just to hear my voice. My big problem is :if everything is so right why haven't he brought me to his house yet. He lives an hour away but works in the town i live in. sometimes he spends the night over. For the past couple of months we have been together on the weekends mostly on saturdays. I am so puzzled he gives me so much affection. Everything feels so right but still he hasn't invite me tho his house. Why? i have asked him why but he never gave me an answer. there could be a possiblity that there is another woman there . But i don't know how this could be. this is the only warning sign i have. when we talk at the end of the day he is so eager to tell me about his day and also to know about my day. This is the best relationship i have had so far. He compliments me everyday. A couple of months ago he asked me to have his baby. And last night marriage came up. I was asking him if he was every married before and how long he interrupted me by asking me will i married him he kept saying it and i kept asking my question then he asked me "will you be my wife?" I don't if he was serious so i didn't answer. After he turned away. How could he act this way and he has never bring me to his place. I just need some opinions. Anybody just tell me what you think about this situation. Could there be woman at home?
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months now. The relationship is going ok, i guess. But there is just one mystery i cannot solve. He was the first to say i love you. After we had a talk he left. then he call back and said that he loves me. He respects me, adores me, treats me good, he is there for me. Sometimes i think he is more into me than i am into him. I have no problem with him calling me. He picks his phone regularly and if he doesn't he returns the call right away. I am so secured with him. My family likes him and I have met his family just once. when i am with him everything feels so right. it feels heavenly. we stare into each others eyes so deeply. This morning he called me just to hear my voice. My big problem is :if everything is so right why haven't he brought me to his house yet. He lives an hour away but works in the town i live in. sometimes he spends the night over. For the past couple of months we have been together on the weekends mostly on saturdays. I am so puzzled he gives me so much affection. Everything feels so right but still he hasn't invite me tho his house. Why? i have asked him why but he never gave me an answer. there could be a possiblity that there is another woman there . But i don't know how this could be. this is the only warning sign i have. when we talk at the end of the day he is so eager to tell me about his day and also to know about my day. This is the best relationship i have had so far. He compliments me everyday. A couple of months ago he asked me to have his baby. And last night marriage came up. I was asking him if he was every married before and how long he interrupted me by asking me will i married him he kept saying it and i kept asking my question then he asked me "will you be my wife?" I don't if he was serious so i didn't answer. After he turned away. How could he act this way and he has never bring me to his place. I just need some opinions. Anybody just tell me what you think about this situation. Could there be woman at home?

If you have no idea what his address is and home phone number after 11 months of dating, he's hiding something. I would not doubt it's a wife and probably kids. You need to decide if you're going to put up with this weird behaviour or tell him no more. It would be better to get out now while you don't know, than to find out that he HAS been playing you all along, don't you agree?