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I Need Suggesttions
| Wed, 07-05-2006 - 9:13am |
Ok, I need suggestions on how to get over a loser. I've gotten to be really pathetic. I drunk dialed him a couple of times this weekend. I had to force myself not to call him last night. He has a lot of stuff going on in his life right now, and its obvious he doesn't have the time to deal with me and he just doesn't want to in general. He is over me. Help me get over him?
I went back to online dating and scoped out people at the pool this weekend, but still he is always in my mind. I'm not sure if I just miss him doting over me or him calling me or what.
Maybe I should take some classes or something.

Don't you hate feeling like that? We've all been there, that post break-up time where we miss being with someone, ANYONE. Don't call, whatever you do, don't call. If you are thinking about calling, make yourself busy, take yourself shopping, clean something, etc etc. If you're drunk dialing, don't drink alone, keep a buddy with you to keep you from calling OR call a friend instead.
You say he's a loser...so write down everything you didn't like about him or the reasons he was wrong for you. You can look back at that when you start thinking of him. This feeling goes away eventually, just takes some time. My guess is you maybe don't miss him, but miss having someone around and being in love. Make sure you understand how the two are different and can identify on you're feeling.
You'll be okay, this will pass, I promise. Just don't call (anymore) and keep your dignity.