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| Thu, 07-06-2006 - 1:41pm |
I started dating my ex when I was only 15. I am now 21 and we still see each other once in a while. Basically we dated for 2 years, broke up because he cheated, and then got back together a year later after seeing each other at a bar. We stayed together the second time for about 2 months...it even went as far as me moving in with him. We were still so in love with each other, but I couldn't trust him. It was too soon so we broke it off and decided to be friends. We still see each other and it has been a year since we broke up for the second time. He has a serious girlfriend and I'm with someone also. But....we still get together. We hang out as friends sometimes, other times we get together as more than that....if you know what I mean. And the passion is still definately there. One night he left me a message talking about how much he appreciates me and that he still thinks of me. What is going on with him? He's in love with his girlfriend, seems to have NO intention of getting back with me....so what is he doing with me?

He's having his cake and eating it too.
Why are you allowing yourself to be involved in this? He has a girlfriend. How did you feel about the other girl when he cheated on YOU? Now YOU are that other girl.
There is something very special and unforgettable about a first love...especially when there is as much history as there is between you and your ex. But if you're still seeing him - and sometimes more than that! -