I like to play games in relationships!
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I like to play games in relationships!
| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 2:38am |
I Have recently been in two serious relationships and i have been bouncing back and forth between guys. I go for the guy i think i want, who at the time wants nothing to do with me, and once i win him over, I am totally unsatisfied, and i go after the previous guy who is no longer talking to me. Whats wrong with me? why cant i be happy? I never thought of myself as playing games. But one guy said I was a heartbreaker, just like the song, and i am starting to think he was right? what do i do?

I guess you think this type of behavior is CUTE, huh? Pianoguy would love to be blunt, but profanity isn't permitted here...so I'll abstain. Here's something to kick around though:
So many ivillage women have posted messages like: "WHY WON'T HE COMMIT?" "WHAT DOES HE REALLY EXPECT FROM ME?" "WHY CAN'T I GET A STRAIGHT ANSWER?" Well ladies....if you've read lil007's post...you've got your answer! Why should we waste our time with you if you'd rather 'fly from guy to guy?' Most of us have better things to do with our time. And frankly, there are much better women out there for us to get to know!
lil007...if you HONESTLY DON'T WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP...make it clear to us at the very beginning. You might be in control of the 'game' you're playing right now, but more than likely, you'll come up a loser!
Ask yourself honestly...which is more important...playing "THE GAME" or "GETTING THE GUY?"
Pianoguy
I think what you should be doing is JUST dating men. Let them know you are just having fun and only looking to date- nothing serious. You're running when things get too much, so don't let them get to that point. If you're just dating a bunch of guys, then you can have the fun of company without the strings. But I would avoid becoming sexually active with a guy until you decide that you want to be exclusive. Remember, when you sleep with a person, you also sleep with every person they have slept with and every one they have slept with and so on...
Alison