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I really need help
| Sat, 11-06-2004 - 9:28am |
My boyfriend of two years and I had the most perfect relationship. We rarely fought and we were best friends. He just graduated college in June and cant find a job so I am thinking that stress is a factor here. About a month ago, he broke up with me out of no where, and never turned back, It was the result of an argument I was having with him about him not coming over one friday night. He said that he doesnt want the responsibility of a girlfriend anymore. He wants to be able to do what he wants without worrying about whether or not hes making me upset. That is obviously a selfish arguement. So after going back and forth deciding whether or not we should still talk, I finally said, no more. I said the only way we can talk is if he wants to get back together with me, otherwise I dont want to speak to him anymore bc its too hard. He still proceeded to call me and still wants me to attend his fathers birthday dinner with the family next weekend. I really do want to go bc I know Im going to see him. Otherwise, I dont exactly know when I will see him again. His family adores me, which just makes me think this is something he wouldnt want me to attend. Why would he want to bring his exgirlfriend to something like this. I know he doesnt have any ill feelings towards me, but is it ridiculous to have it in the back of my mind that we may get back together. I just really dont know what to do. Hes like a drug that I am dangerously addicted to. The worst part is is that he is such a sweet person. What should I do?

You stick to your guns...if he wants to get back together, then he can call you, but otherwise you don't want to hear from him. Dragging out a break up is ok if both parties buy into that, but you don't. You have to do what's best for you...he's only watching out for himself.
With the best of luck,
DragonsBabyBlue