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| Sun, 04-25-2004 - 3:29pm |
WELL HERE GOES, I FOUND THE PSSWD TO HIS PAGER AGAIN!!!!!!!I HAVE GOTTEN A HOLD OF IT IN THE PAST AND NEVER REALLY HEARD ANYTHING.I HAVE BEEN MONITORING IT FOR ABOUT 5 DAYS.IT WAS FINE MON AND TUESDAY BUT WEDNESDAY I HAPPENED TO CHECK IT AT ABOUT 3:00PM, WHEN I WAS AT WK AND I COULDNT BELIEVE MY EARS.... THIS GIRL SAID "OKAY COME DOWN TO THIS STREET AND THE 2ND HOUSE ON THE LFT" SHE WAS OBVIOUSLY GIVING HIM DIRECTIONS.WELL I IMMEDIATELY WENT INTO A PANIC. BUT I KEPT COOL. HE PICKED ME UP AT WK AT 4:45PM. WE WENT OUT TO DINNER THAT NIGHT AND I WENT IN THE BATHROOM AT THE RESTAURANT TO CHECK IT AND THIS IS WHAT I HEARD....
2ND MSSG: "HEY BABY, I REALLY ENJOYED SEEING YOU TODAY,EVEN THOUGH IT WAS JUST FOR A SHORT TIME." (SO FROM ABOUT 3PM-4PM MAYBE??? GIVING TRAFFIC TIME TO MY JOB)
3RD MSSG: "I HOPE YOUR NOT MAD AT ME FOR TRYING TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU, I WAS REALLY HORNY AND I WISHED WE COULD HAVE DONE IT,BUT OH WELL I UNDERSTAND."
4TH MSSG: " HEY ITS ME CALL ME, I HOPE I CAN SEE YOU TOMMORROW,I REALLY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU, AND I MISS YOU". (HOW DESPERATE CAN YOU GET????)
I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO DIE ,I GOT SOOOOO WEAK AND COMPLETELY LOST MY APPETITE.WELL WE ATE AND HE WAS EXTREMELY HAPPY LIKE NORMAL. HE DID ASK ME WHAT WAS WRONG? CAUSE I WAS BEING REALLY QUIET AND NOT REALLY EATING LIKE USUAL. I JUST TOLD HIM MY STOMACH WAS
HURTING REALLY BAD.
THE NEXT DAY (THURSDAY) I CALLED OUT OF WK SICK. I COULDNT THINK ABOUT WORKING...ALL MORNING I KEPT ACCUSING HIM OF BEING UNFAITHFUL BY DROPPING HINTS AND MAKING SMART REMARKS.I JUST COULDNT HELP IT.UNTIL WE FINALLY GOT INTO AND ARGUMENT... WE MADE UP ABOUT AN HOUR LATER AND ONE THING LED TO ANOTHER(I KIND OF WANTED TO DO IT JUST TO SEE IF HE STILL DESIRED ME, AND IF ANYTHING HAS CHANGED, AND ALSO TO FULFILL HIS SEXUAL NEEDS.) NOTHING HAD CHANGED IS WAS ACTUALLY VERRRRRRY PASSIONATE. FYI: OUR SEX LIFE HAS ALWAYS BEEN INCREDIBLE !!!!! ANYWAYS
MSSG THAT MORNING: "I HOPE I CAN SEE YOU TODAY ?" CALL ME 999-9999
ANOTHER MSSG: "HEY NICK, I REALLY MISS YOU, YOUR SMILE, YOUR SEXY BUILD, AND I REALLY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU" (IN MUCH MORE EXPLICIT WORDS) AND LATER THAT NIGHT.....
3RD MSSG: "I HOPE YOU AND YOUR GF HAD A GREAT DAY, I WISHED I COULD HAVE SEEN YOU,BUT I UNDERSTAND." AT THIS POINT I WAS EVEN MORE UPSET CAUSE SHE KNOWS ABOUT ME....
4TH MSSG: " HEY, HE WILL BE HOME TOMMORROW, BUT I WILL CALL YOU SAT WHEN IM AT WORK." (I GUESS SHE HAS A BF TOO)
(FRIDAY)SHE DIDNT CALL. AND HE HASNT BEEN OUT OF MY EYESIGHT SINCE WEDNESDAY. AND NORMALLY HE NEVER LEAVES THE HOUSE AT NIGHT AT ALL IN LESS WE ARE TOGETHER. WE'VE ALWAYS DONE EVERYTHING TOGETHER.
ANYWAYS ITS SAT NOW AND THE MSSG TODAY WAS: "HEY, I HAVENT HEARD FROM YOU, PLEASE CALL ME,I REALLY WANT YOU BADDD (MORE EXPLICIT WORDS) 999-9999." AND THATS WHERE IM AT.......
I AM BURSTING INSIDE WITH ANGER BUT HE HAS NO IDEA I KNOW WHATSOEVER.I AM PLAYIN IT BY EAR, CAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.....PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT THE MSSGS CAUSE ITS HARD TO TELL IF THEY HAVE HAD SEX OR NOT??? UNLESS IM IN DENIAL.
I LOVE THIS MAN WITH ALLLLL MY HEART AND MY LIL GIRL LOVES HIM, HE MAKES ME HAPPIER THAN I HAVE EVER BEEN, AND I REALLY THOUGHT HE WAS THAT ONE, WE EVEN PLANNED TO HAVE A BABY TOGETHR ONE DAY(HE DONT HAVE ANY KIDS BUT HE LOVES THEM).HE REALLY TAKES GREAT CARE OF US I MEAN HE SPOILS ME. HE HAS DONE A LOT FOR US IN EVERY WAY. HE HAS BEEN THERE FOR ME FINANCIALLY,EMOTIONALLY,HE DOES ALL THE HOUSEHOLD CHORES,ASIDE FROM THIS, HE'S THAT MAN THAT EVERY WOMEN WOULD ASK FOR.WE'VE BEEN THROUGH SOME ROUGH TIMES TOGETHER TOO,AND THROUGH IT ALL WE WERE HAPPY AND ENJOYING EACH OTHER. EVERYONE IN MY FAMILY ABSOLUTELY LOVES----HIM. AND HIS FAMILY LOVES ME TOO...WE HAVE STRONG FAMILY TIES.....AND NOT TO MENTION HE RECENTLY TOLD MY DAUGHTER THAT SHE COULD CALL HIM DADDY.WELL ANYWAYS, I COULD GO ON ALL DAY, BUT I WANTED YOU ALL TO GET THE FULL PICTURE SO YOU WOULD UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT IM GOING THROUGH...I WOULD NEVER HAVE SUSPECTED THIS> I AM VERY,VERY CONFUSED. AND I FEEL BETRAYED, AND I FEEL LIKE HES NOT WHO I THOUGHT HE WAS. WHAT SHOULD I DO ?? PLEASE HELP ME ????

So as for the answer: Run. This guy is a liar and a cheat. You're not proving anything by proving he wants you--you're becoming a doormat.
"...we even planned to have a baby together one day..." Uh, how about dating, marriage, babies, in that order? Or will you be thrilled in a few years when your daughter comes to you and announces that she's going to shack up with a guy and pop a kid? Remember, we are our children's first teachers.
The last paragraph of your post illustrates PERFECTLY why adults with minor children shouldn't live with their honeys. Your daughter has, naturally, become attached to this guy. Now she is about to suffer another loss because of your reckless behavior and lack of forethought. Good job. My advice would be to move out, become self-sufficient, and concentrate on your daughter ONLY. Your sex/love life is unimportant. Your child's emotional well-being and moral development is paramount.