I screwed up and I feel like an idiot

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2006
I screwed up and I feel like an idiot
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Thu, 09-13-2007 - 8:12pm

Hi All, I'm back with another dilemma.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 8:21pm

Some men never wear wedding rings -- not because they're looking to cheat, but

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 8:25pm
Look the guy was sending mixed signals and he is married. He's the one who should feel embarrassed, not you.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2006
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 8:29pm
See that is what I'm beating myself over.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2006
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 8:30pm
I wouldn't have gone out with him if he was married.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 8:43pm

I don't understand how you could be too afraid to ask him if he was married

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2006
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 8:50pm
I know!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2007
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 11:42am
And, why do you care so much what he thinks about you? The man is married, and that's it. Now you found out what you needed to know, so time to move on. I wouldn't go out with him in your situation. And, yes, some men are natural flirts, and it also boosts their egos when good-looking single women flirt back. Don't beat yourself over this guy. He is not your bf or your husband, so I don't see why are you freaking out about this so much. Good luck.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 4:24pm
Okay so you didn't handle this one the way you could have.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2006
Sat, 09-15-2007 - 10:11am
Thanks for the constructive feedback.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Sat, 09-15-2007 - 12:14pm

My best advice: When in doubt, don't. And, 'believe' what someone says - like when he said 'wife' - it's up to him to set the record straight.

Don't feel too bad. He LOVED your attention. Not cool considering he's married and all....








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