I split off communication with him...
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I split off communication with him...
| Wed, 05-30-2007 - 8:34pm |
A couple of years ago, I met a guy online. (Let's call him bob). I had been talking to Bob everyday for about one year, then we exchanged phone numbers. It was too good to be true, we talked every night on the phone, sometimes 5 hours at a time. It had been 2 years, and we still did not see each other face to face. I got frustrated, I loved Bob, but unable to see each other, I gave up. I figured it would not be fare to myself, or him, to dedicate so much time on something that would probbally not work out. I told him good-bye, and split off all communication with him, phone, e-mails, aim/aol, etc. So here I am 6 months later, thinking of Bob everyday, regretting what I did. What should I do? Should I just move on? Call him? I feel if we do come in contact again, we could be able to meet in person.

As I posted on the OLD board, I think that you should not contact this guy.
Let me tell you something...6 months ago I would have agreed with your statement: "it is impossible to be in love with someone you've never met." Because that is a rational statement. But now, 6 months later, I think it is possible to have those feelings. I am dealing with some emotions right now from a similar type of situation. I have always said, "never say never" and in this case, I'm glad I did.
m8trix...how old are both of you?