I tend to give it up too soon

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Registered: 02-04-2004
I tend to give it up too soon
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Tue, 04-06-2004 - 4:16pm
I admit i tend to give "IT" up too soon when I start dating a guy. My number isn't that high, but it's high enough. How can I not get caught up in the moment, and get a guy to respect me. I feel like I'm becoming a slut.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 4:35pm
A person can't respect you that doesn't know you as a person -and that you share values and standards with.

You'd have to date quite awhile for this person to get to know you....stop involving yourself in compromising physical situations such as having them come to your place, or in after the date, and getting into a position where having sex is just "too desirable to passup".

If the guy won't date you after 2-3 times becuase you won't have sex, won't make out extensively he just wanted'it" and he'll go away and you'll be better off.

Erin

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