I think I like him...

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Registered: 05-26-2007
I think I like him...
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Sun, 10-21-2007 - 6:49pm
So I met a guy online and we decided to meet up Friday night. We've been talking online on and off for about a month and half. He called me last Friday to see what I was up to but I was on a date, so I called him back and offered a raincheck. Well on Friday I drove up to see him, as he lives about 45 minutes away from me. We met and he took me to see a nice view. There he kissed me and from that I knew that I liked him. He seems like a really nice, sweet intelligent guy but with a bad boy side to him..but not the bad boy type. He took me back to his place where we just cuddled up, "watched" a movie and made out intensively several times. I didn't want to leave but I had to go because by the time I would get home it would be past 2 am. I really think I like this guy and can see potential. I was talking to him online today and he told me that he wanted to tear off my clothes and blah blah blah. Well I told him that I felt the same way but I couldn't just do that. I am a virgin and its not that I am particulary waiting to have sex until I get married but I don't want to have sex with a guy I just met. I did confess to him that I was a virgin and he was surprised. I really like this guy and hope that there is potential because I can see myself with him , I just hope I didn't scare him away. In fact he told me he is willing to teach me. What should I do? I don't want to rush things because I've got my principals. I'm just hoping that he understands that.
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Registered: 06-08-2006
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 7:05pm

If he really is into you, he will respect your wish to remain a virgin until you are ready.

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Registered: 12-06-2004
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 8:50pm

Honestly, he does not sound like a good match for you.

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Registered: 05-26-2007
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 9:11pm
Well he did offer to drive down to see me but I didn't mind drivng up myself. We were going to go out dancing and such but I really wasn't really in the mood. In fact a good makeout session and a movie was really good. The thing is that I know it may sound stupid but I really
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 11:10pm

The way you fend off the sex in the future is by making sure you get out dancing with him next time.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 2:36pm

You drove 45 minutes to see someone you've never even met, then went with a stranger to see a view and to his apt?

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 2:55pm
Again you need to be very cautious in these kinds of circumstances.
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Registered: 04-23-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 1:10pm
I think he just wants to pop your cherry...plz be cautious!!!

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Wed, 10-24-2007 - 4:37pm

Yowza!!!

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