I think I know the answer...need confirm

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Registered: 12-22-2003
I think I know the answer...need confirm
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Wed, 11-10-2004 - 6:11pm
So, I met a guy a few weeks ago and on Friday was the first time we saw each other since we met. He came over and we watched a movie. Not much happened, we snuggled on the couch a little and he kissed me, and due to the smallness of my couch, I said we could go to my bedroom.

However, when we were on the couch I told him nothing was going to happen when we went to my room, and he said that was cool.

So, we continued making out with a little touchy-feely going on, but nothing major. He had to go tot work the next morning, so he left around midnight.

I hadn't heard anything from him, so I called him last night (he had always called me, this was my 2 time calling him), and we talked briefly. As I was getting off the hpone I said, "All right, talk to you later," and he replied, "yea, see ya later."

So...basically when he realized I wasn't going to sleep with him right away, he didn't want anything to do with me? That's my interpretation, what's yours??

Thanks,

Shannon
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Registered: 08-10-2003
Wed, 11-10-2004 - 8:45pm
My interpretation is that he'll call you when he wants some more cudling and kissing leading to something major. He'll call you at his convenience. He wanted sex so he tried but since you said nothing would happen he decided not to pursue more that night.