I think i need help!
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I think i need help!
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 11:02am |
I recently put up a discussion re. my boyfriend leaving me without telling me. Basically we were together for 2 1/2 years, we split up in november last year then got back together in april for 2 weeks, he left his girlfriend for me which i now know that they were engaged and she was apparently pregnant with his child. i only found this out when he did a dissapearing act one morning, we hadn't had an arguement or anything so it was a total shock that he went like that. I have seen him since and i get upset every time.. instead of crying infront of them now i do hold back till i get home! Anyway a company has just called me, we had a joint account with them for a loan, and after discussing my half of the account have told me where he works.. i have been dieing to contact him all these months, as i have been wanting an explaination for why he did what he did.. i am dieing to ring this company and speak to him.. ANY advise welcome.. would any of you call him?? If i did, i would need an excuse for him to come round to my house.. if i told him it was just for me to talk i dont think he'd come..
It has been 3 months now though.. how long does it usually take before you start to get over your ex?
It has been 3 months now though.. how long does it usually take before you start to get over your ex?
Tx

The best thing you can do to get back at him is to act like it doesn't phase you anymore. He's getting some kind of childish kick out of your pain, why allow that to continue? There's nothing he could POSSIBLY say that will make you feel better. He played you, got what he wanted and went back to the girlfriend. Maybe you were some kind of conquest, who knows? All I know is that NO MAN is worth that kind of pain. So pick yourself up, dust yourself off and quit crying! Go out and get a haircut, manicure, facial, back massage- whatever will pick you up. Hang out with your friends and DON'T talk about him at all. If you see him, turn and walk the other way. Stop giving him the satisfaction of seeing you upset OVER HIM. All this negative and upset energy is not good for you, you need to shed it all and become positive again. Throw yourself into things that make you happy. Try dating someone, spend the afternoon doing silly things with your friends.
I really hope that you see this guy for what he is. Look at yourself in the mirror and see yourself for the beautiful, happy person you should be again. Don't let a man rule your life.