I think my boyfriend is cheating

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Registered: 01-26-2004
I think my boyfriend is cheating
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Mon, 03-22-2004 - 3:32pm
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months this has been my longest relationship in the past 5 years. I had suspicions of him cheating But I never really caught him with anyone I got my tarot cards read by my friends mother she told me he isnt cheating that i should trust him so lately i have been trying to But i keep catching him on internet sites like american singles, matchup and sex tracker i try my hardest to trust him but im not really sure i should ive been hurt so many times in the past for trusting guys so im kinda scared to trust him

CAN SOMEONE HELP ME???????????? If anyone has any ideas on what i should do please email me at----------- blakesbabygurl04@sbcglobal.net ---------------
Avatar for bratgirl2002
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 3:34pm
Throw away the cards and listen to your instincts.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 3:53pm

To me, merely having an ad up on a personals site while you're in a supposedly committed and monogamous relationship is cheating.

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 7:06pm
"A relationship without trust isn't worth being in." YES! YES! Listen to she who wanders the Northwest, Blinded...she's a smart cookie. I couldn't have put it better myself, Sheri.

-Goose

Avatar for caramello0213
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 7:20pm
No man committed and respectful of a woman for any length of time (6 months or 6 years!) should be checking out singles sites on the Internet. He's sending you a clear message that he is not fully interested in the relationship. Take ownership of the situation. Ask him why he's looking at those sites. My guess is he'll give you a manipulative answer that makes it sound like it's okay. If you've had uneasy relationships in the past, you may be in pattern mode and have latched onto another man not worthy of your love. Trust your gut! Ask questions. Be respectful of yourself. If you let this go, he'll continue to do such things, because he thinks he can get away with it. He can get away with it, after you've left him in the dust! Never let anyone make you feel intimidated or unworthy. Maybe it's time for you to explore your selfworth; figure out what's important to you and how you can get it. A good place to start is a bookstore or library. Start reading up on how to have a fulfilling life for you. Once that is accomplished, your prince in shining armour will arrive!

Take care and good luck.