I think things are changing....

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
I think things are changing....
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Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:37am
This is going to sound so childish or teenagish if you will but here it goes anyway. The guy I am seeing recenlty told one of my good friends that he is really digging on me. He said he liked my how I was upfront and it seemed I am a good mom. Than yesterday he called to say hi which has not been a normal occurrence. Normally we talk to make plans. he doesn't seem like a big phone person and I am actually comfortable for the first time with this. Could he be changing his mind about the short term and be thinking long term? If you need more info check out my original post http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rldatingdil&msg=24804.1&ctx=512

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 3:23pm

Until he TELLS you he wants a commitment, that he wants to be exclusive, that he would like your relationship to grow to longterm, you just don't know.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 4:48pm
I am okay with the way things are right now. I like this aspect of dating, In the past I have never really dated. Honestly I think that is because I am a single mother and I felt pressure to commit to a relationship. However, I realize now that if someone can not be tolerant of my situation they are not worth my time.

Thanks for the advice.