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I think we're going to fast
| Sun, 06-20-2004 - 9:49pm |
My boyfriend and I are about 15 and we have been dating for about 3 1/2 months. I love him to death and I know he would never go over the top (have sex), but I'm worried we're going to fast. See about a week or so ago we were even afraid to kiss in public and then just a couple of days ago we started making out. I didn't mind that too much untill we got to french kissing. What should I do? I told him we have to draw the line so we don't go to far but I'm not sure that that will be enough. I can't help but kiss him and I know he loves me but I need a little advice. Please, anybody, Help?
xxxDragonsbabybluexxx
suggestions open Please?
xxxDragonsbabybluexxx
suggestions open Please?

Pianoguy suggests you shut your mouth tightly the moment your b/f starts the "french kissing routine!"
I just wonder if you're really serious about 'drawing the line?' Your conscience may say NO, but your lips are saying YES! YES! YES!
Which body part of yours is stronger....the head or the heart?
Pianoguy
I think you're on the right track. You've communicated your limits to him. YOU are always in control, if you need to stop, stop him. If you let him do things, he's not a mind reader and will think that you're ok with where things are headed. If you tell him no and he persists, then this isn't the guy for you.
Some women use strategies to put off having sex with a guy...like not shaving their legs or their armpits. Try that.
xxxDragonsbabybluexxx
Just please please be careful. Respect yourself and your body and PROTECT it when the time comes. And I hope that time isn't anywhere in the near future.
Keep us posted on how things go. I have a 9 yr. old and reading your messages is really giving me insight as to what is to come with my own daughter. T Smith
xxxDragonsbabybluexxx