I want a SHY guy..(M)
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I want a SHY guy..(M)
| Sun, 10-03-2004 - 9:30pm |
I really am interested in this guy at work and I'm certain
that he likes me. He's really shy though. But, he always
says hi and turns bright red when he sees me. I'm a pretty
confident person now. But, seeing that he gets all shy, he
makes me nervous to talk to him.I've tried to start a conversation
with him but, he gets all red and seems nervous.. Does this mean
that he likes me or what? How do I make him feel comfortable and
let him know that I'm into him. I left him my number. And that's
when he started acting all nervous. How do I get him to ask me
out if he's shy? Do I ask for his number? Help!!!

its me elvis in silence...u know y? coz i m a shy guy myself...very shy....thats y i m on ivillage rather than in pubs....i really get red when i see beautiful girl....but i try to control...and thats when i think i do things which i guess the opposite gender knows that i like them...anyway...in ur case...i really think u shud first be assured whether he is looking for anything from u or not...although he gets red...it doesnt necessarily mean that he is looking for a relationship....hmmmm....sad but true...myself..i m happy being single...and am not looking for a relationship...but even then i bcome red in front a beautiful girl....ahem! so u have already left him ur number....which i m pretty sure is good enough to hint that u r interested....and bcoz he is so shy....he justs needs time to be comfortable....so just be normal...and give him just friendly smile....u know the one that means i care for u....definitely not that ooooo babe...u s so hot....coz 1 gurl tried that on me and i was absoluteeeeeeeeely freaked out....once he sees that friendly i care for u smile....he will say a lil more than hi...and then u can aske him a good question like this: r u ok? ooooooo...i wud have loved if that gurl asked me this....it means that i care for u....not that ooooo babe u r hot...i wanna have......bla..bla..bla....got my point? i m 99.9% sure he will respond to that question and BINGO there u go...u have a conversation...and also be sy urself....he will find it xtremely cute....and wud know that u play the game on the same level....not a level above....honestly speaking...when we see beautiful gurl...we think they r like angels flying in the sky....and we consider ourselves average bloke walking on the ground....so angels and average bloke dont go together...so we shy guys never think anything practical with angels like u....ok? the only way it is possible is if the angel comes down on the ground and show that they are actually a normal human being with feelings....and if ur guy is a shy person...it means he feels a lot...te way to get him is to feel like him...and that ua can xpress through asking if he is feeling awright or not? (i wich that gurl asked me this)...i m quite confident that this wud work....let us know what happens....(really interesting as it is somewhat similar to my case)...Best of luck
Elivs_In_Silence