I wanted closure but he left me dangling

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Registered: 08-13-2006
I wanted closure but he left me dangling
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Sat, 04-28-2007 - 4:16pm

I'm writing about the unreliable guy (so please have patience with me).

So you know I haven't seen him for the longest time. He hasn't called me at all so of course any girl will think he has disappeared.

Last weekend I decided to text him (what have I got to lose at least I will have closure). I sent him a text that read - 'I haven't heard from you in a while. I guess its not working between us'.

He texts back - 'I am in Calgary for another '. Thats it! He didn't finish his sentence. Nothing else! I did not know he was in Calgary. So I wrote back and said - 'I feel stupid now. I guess you will call me when you have time when you are back'. He didn't reply.

I just wanted him to say - yes its better that we each move on because its not working.

In my mind he has already moved on. Why can't he just say yes or no??

I want to call him. Should I call him?

Snafu, I ready your thing about a player. I think I got played! :(




Edited 4/28/2007 4:19 pm ET by reggielicious

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Registered: 02-27-2007
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 12:41pm
LOL! I love the (I Hope) Trust, I feel and keep saying the same. :) But you know what we live and learn, that's a fact of life. So keep strong! I have to admit these boards have helped me a lot. Again all the best chicky!
*Leena
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 2:42pm

The sad thing is that if he is a player, he's a poor excuse for one. Hon, the only one who is holding on is you. Sheri's right. Don't wait on him for the closure. Give it to yourself.


I am sorry you're going through this, it stinks!

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