I was shocked and surprised

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Registered: 11-21-2004
I was shocked and surprised
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Wed, 02-22-2006 - 3:02pm
After dating a guy for 2 weeks who was supposed to be a Christian I found his porno vedio colection under his bed. He ways it wasnt his but belonged to his roomate who left after he joined the army. Should I blieve him or not?
Please let the animals live!!
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 02-22-2006 - 3:54pm

Why is a normal, healthy Christian man not allowed to look at porn? Honestly, I bet a majority of men, Christian, Jewish, agnostic or otherwise, have viewed or owned porn at one time and probably currently. To many, pornography is not "sinful". While you may disagree with it or find it disgusting but that's the way it is. It's not illegal (except in the cases of child pornography) and it is very common. This guy probably came up with an excuse because he knows you have a problem with it. If it was his roommate's and he didn't want it, why did he keep it?

While it is your own judgement call whether or not you agree with it, you will likely find that a lot of men in America will have some familiarity with porn. Good luck.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 1:54pm
Excellent chance it's his but Im' sure he's not the only Christian to have a porn collection. Many guys do.
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