If you were seeing someone for 3 months

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Registered: 07-27-2002
If you were seeing someone for 3 months
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Sat, 09-24-2005 - 7:01pm
off and on causally (without being sexually initmate) and you thought he was getting a divorce (because thats what he tells you) and then you find out that he was still seeing his wife, But playing you for a FOOL and LYING to you. Would you want to start something back up with him after a year has gone by knowing that he is divorced now. Or would you have moved on by now and not give him the time of day for doing that to you?????
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Sun, 09-25-2005 - 2:59pm

Moved on and not given him the time of day.

If he's done it once, he'll do it again, and you don't need to be with a man who has no thought about lying to get what he wants.

Alison

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Registered: 07-27-2002
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 3:18pm

Actually I was the wife and when I caught him emailing her, I called her up and left a message and told her that I'm not sure what he has told you, but he has not been honest with you and we are trying to work our marriage out...and when he told you he was at a football game, he was actually camping with me..Well then she called him and he did say he was working it out with me...and then he did not say much and then he said goodbye.

When he got off the phone he said WELL, I guess you don't have to worry about her anymore...I think she CHEWED ARSE...I know of her and I know she is looking for an honest man and she is a christian....

LOL..and then My EX tried telling me after 7 months went by that she was a Lesbian, but was trying to go back to her old ways.. OMG...WHAT A PATHALOGICAL LIAR. NO, I really don't think she would hook back up with him...I think she felt like a fool..I would have.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:01pm
Separated is married. There is always that chance that they will get back together. He's a liar...he omitted something KEY and that's a red flag. You shouldn't give him the time of day- you'd only be setting yourself up for more of the same.