Ignoring the x = sign of weakness?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2004
Ignoring the x = sign of weakness?
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Tue, 06-22-2004 - 3:38am
So i dumped my gf 3 months ago, which is now my x.She cheated on me. We use to go to this lounge together all the time. I have been a few time, and noticed she is there, and she notices me, and she'll start flirting with all the guys in front of me. I dont let it bother me, so i leave. I know she still goes, but i havent been in about 2 months. I feel she wants me to reappear again. I dont want to give her the satisfaction, so i cut this too. No contact at all. She hasnt tried to reach me in anyway after i dumped her, but visual at the lounge. I seen her just this once, and i completely ignored her. Kicked it with some friends meeting new girls and i left before she.

Sometimes i feel ignoring or cutting all ties is a sign of weakness, giving the other the upperhand?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 7:39am
No it actually shows a sign of maturity.

If you got all in her face, started throwing a hissy fit because she was flirting with other men, THAT would be a sign of weakness, she'd know she still had you under her thumb. Ignoring her is mature and shows, I don't care anymore, do what you want.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 9:44am
You seem to still have feelings for this woman.
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