I'm afraid I'm too boring
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I'm afraid I'm too boring
| Fri, 03-05-2004 - 2:13pm |
I've been dating my bf for about 1.5 months now. He says he loves, I know I love him, but I worry that I'm just too darn boring. When we talk on the phone I can't think of much to talk about. I think we do pretty well when we're together, but we talk twice a day and I'm worried he's going to get bored with me. HELP!!

I'm not a phone person either and some might find me boring too! ;-) But luckily for me, my husband is the same way on both counts, so we fit together like hand in glove. We spend time together sometimes not saying a thing -- but we are comfortable with the silences. We only talk on the phone to convey information -- our phone conversations are so short it's funny. We're very happy to have found in one another someone who doesn't always want to chat and make idle conversation to fill the gaps. We hate small talk and don't do it well.
Again -- you're fine just the way you are. Don't settle for ANYONE who thinks differently! :-) Good luck.
I also have the same problem as yours. I've been dating a guy for 1 month.. we frequently meet and talk on the phone more than one times a day.
Lack of idea on the phone conversation also happened to me.....so don't worry!!! he will not get bored of you because of that . And stop thinking that he'll be bored at you... just relax, and enjoyed your time.
good luck!!
Hopefooly