Im back and confused! Dunno what to say

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Im back and confused! Dunno what to say
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Sun, 09-26-2004 - 11:17pm
Ok, so i was at this club couple weeks ago and i got into some convo with this sexy lookin waitress. Eye contact was extreme and she was close all night. She was actually the only chic i talked to in the club. I didnt get her number and ended up leaving after talking to some friends.

Couple days later, i was online and i seen her profile on a dating site. 2 pics and everything i asked about her was on her profile. I became a member and put some pics up. and emailed her saying "you look and sound very familiar, have we met?" She responded a week later which was last thursday saying "your sooo funny. i think we have met. what a coincidence"

So im here kinda confused on a sunday night wanting to respond but not know what to say? I want to just pop in the club another time, but she works there PT and no set schedule. I dont want to go every fri/sat night and be like a stalker till i run into her again. Email is a different social setting than a bar.

I dont want to be like every other guy, since i know she gets hit on all the time. I want to email her back but not know what to say? Any suggestions. Dont wanna screw this one up
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2004
Mon, 09-27-2004 - 6:43am
it seems like you are very much interested to the woman you met in the bar but if this woman is very attractive she could be that kind of person that love to be playful with guys and since she is a waitress in a bar. its positive you are just one of those guys she is playful with all the time. i think you can remain good buddies with the waitress girl over emails but if you want to give it a try and risk it then see her again at the bar on friday or saturday and start simple conversations with her but if rejected that is life!