I'm confused

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Registered: 12-31-1969
I'm confused
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 12:19pm
I've known this guy for about 6years recently he started to email me daily because we don't live in the same town. After about a month of daily emails in around about way I asked what had changed his end. He came back explaining that he had feelings for me but was afraid of ruining the friendship. We decided that we would meet up and spend the weekend together which went really well.

A couple of weeks later his emails stopped I tried phoning, emailing and texting but no answer, after a couple of days he emailed saying he was really sorry for ignoring me but could not commit anymore and was sorry.

Since then I have still not heard from him, I have emailed and texted a couple of times but nothing. The only person he has spoken to is my brother.

I'm really confused because this is so out of character for him. A month has now gone by and I still have not heard anything from him. I really though this relationship could work because we are such good friends.

So do I just sit and wait for him to contact me or try to forget him and move on?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 12:28pm
Sounds to me like maybe he's found someone else and doesn't have the balls to just say so. The difference between us is that men don't care about giving women closure, if they find someone else, they'll just go with them instead. Most women on the other hand would be inclined to tell the guy before hand that it wasn't working out for them.

Move on, he's not worth your time.

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Registered: 12-23-2003
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 5:19pm

I don't understand what you are confused about now.

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