Im confused and need advice thanks

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Registered: 10-27-2004
Im confused and need advice thanks
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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 1:19am
I am talking to someone online and he asked me to be his partner in a marraige and I haven't heard from him in a while how do I know that he really loves me for real,if I haven't even met him in person?I am so in love that i can't wait and does he really love me?

What should I do,and will he EVER contact me he said he will in a month and it's

been a month.Should i wait it's driving me crazy I want to meet him so bad,thanks.

Liz

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Registered: 09-07-2004
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 6:54am
How can you possibly be in love with someone you've never SEEN? Please slow down with this online Romeo. What he says and who he is could be completely different things. Love takes time, patience, and at least a look at the person!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-26-2004
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 11:46am
You're absolutely right LIz -- you sure are confused. How old are you? Sorry to tell you this but you can't love a person you've never met. You never knew the real guy behind the persona on your computer. My advice for you is to consider yourself SO VERY LUCKY that this guy did a runner. Why not stay off the computer for awhile and get out there and really live life in the world around you? You sound a bit obsessed with what's been happening on your computer screen and that is a huge red flag that you need to turn it off and break the addiction you've formed for the written words of strangers who profess admiration and love. That needs to come from inside you, based on what you think of yourself. Re-read your own post and try to view it objectively. Anyone who would give a nanosecond's thought to marrying someone you never met in real life needs some help of the professional sort.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-27-2004
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 11:54am
He said he would mail me a picture and he MADE me give him my address,he has to

disguise himself this pisses me off cuz i dont feel that I'll be good enough for him,and waiting IS hard especially when you ell in love and he is emailing me tell
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2003
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 2:32pm
Excuse me but how can someone MAKE you do anything via the computer? What do you mean about him disguising himself. Honey I know this isn't what you want to hear but please wise up. You were just plain foolish to give a stranger your address. To me it sure doesn't sound like an emotionally healthy, mature adult is writing your posts.
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Registered: 10-27-2004
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 2:41pm
If he really wrote to me then I think I would have to have something to worry about BUT the month isn't over with yet nd if he does ill tell you guys all about it,he didnt mention the

fact he was going write around the month of October and it STILL isn't over with yet so

im going to give him a chance,but if he does Ill tell you all about it I promise!

Liz

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-26-2004
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 2:43pm
What do you think everyone...troll alert?

Can anyone be this naive and/or foolish?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2003
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 3:03pm
I'm confused as well. I read your post and all the replies you've made to others and to be honest, I don't understand a word of what you're gabbing on about!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2004
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 6:06am
I'm confused as well. Aside from the definate TROLL ALERT, I also wonder how anyone could be this foolish and immature. Is this a joke?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2004
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 10:30pm
this post has been all over iVillage and I just can't possibly take it serious.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2004
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 10:39pm
Uh, it's quite obvious that he's not overly interested in you. You haven't talked to him in a month?! How can you be in love with someone you've never met? Slow down.