I'm so confused.....
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I'm so confused.....
| Sun, 06-20-2004 - 4:37pm |
Okay, I am going out with this guy. He's basically obsessed about me and will not let me go. But i'm kinda interested in this other guy and we're friends and he tells me he likes this other girl and hes liked her about 4 years now. We went out the other day and he was really touchy feely and acted as if he liked me and i'm not sure if he likes me and i'm really confused. I wanna break up with the guy i'm going out with but hes this great guy but i'm not sure if i'll be making a mistake. I'm not sure about how i feel about him anymore and we're having a lot of problems anyways. I dont know if i should give up a guy that iz totally in love with me for a guy who says he likes another girl but acts as if he likes me. And i dont know anymore..... Any ideas?
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| Mon, 06-21-2004 - 5:25am |
You went out on a date with a guy that ADMITS he likes someone else? But he was touchy feely with you? Okay--he's a leech---don't bet on that going anywhere. And you are dating someone and cheated on them by going out with this other guy??? What is that? No matter how great your boyfriend treats you-loves you, etc..if you don't feel the same (which obviously you don't) end the relationship. Period.
| Mon, 06-21-2004 - 11:57am |
Get out of the relsationship. I'm only speaking from experience. I once dated a guy for 3 years. He was not only obsessed, he was extremely jealous and accused me of things I never did. When I wanted to end things, he talked me into counseling. It only pushed me farther away. He was the kind of guy that wouldn't take no for an answer. You say that your guy is totally in love with you, I'm thinking totally obsessed with you sounds more like it. Eventually I ended things with my boyfriend. I ran into him at a bar one night, he said hi to me, I said hi back and continued walking. He freaked out. When I was leaving the bar he came out after me, got in my face, to the point of 3 of his friends having to put themselves between us so that I could leave. I ended up calling the cops once I got home and was given the advice to get a restraining order. Later, I found out that he'd been getting into my email and reading them, driving past my apartment to see if there were any strange cars parked outside (insinuating that I was sleeping with someone), even listening outside my apartment door to phone conversations that I was having. If your guy is truly obsessed, he isn't in love with you. Things could get worse. There is a lot more to the story, but I think you get the idea. For your own sake, if he is obsessed then things will only get worse. Let me know what happens.
| Mon, 06-21-2004 - 10:03pm |
thank you guys both for your advice I greatly appreciate it, but I just want to clarify some things, the guy that i was out with was just flirty with me, we didnt do anything that could be considered cheating, and my boyfriend knew that me and that guy went out, because I told him everything, I'm conpletly honest with my boyfriend, I just dont know if I want to continue the relationship with him, or just date other people.
| Tue, 06-22-2004 - 10:24am |
2 issues here:
