I'm worried...

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2006
I'm worried...
1
Tue, 10-24-2006 - 6:22pm

I've been worried as of late that my spouse has been cheating on me.
The care and concern that used to be there tends to be used sparingly...

Two examples that scare me are...

Awhile back I had a friend pass away in a car accident, we were discussing such. Then the conversation ended quite normally, with what I thought of as my spouse trying to comfort me.
It ended with my spouse telling me that my spouse would call me back soon. I worried, due to the time it took to call me back (Four Hours). Called and inquired. It turns out my spouse was out with a 'friend' enjoying themselves.

Then a few weeks ago, I celebrated my birthday. To which I got no response, my spouse didn't seem enthusiastic at all. Blamed it on past events that led my spouse into a 'bad mood'. My spouse had a friend cheat with my spouses' ex (At least that's how the story goes...) and my spouse was angry//depressed which I could understand. Later on once again I find out that my spouse wasn't really angry, and that day my spouse called to make plans with they individual to go out.

I feel horrible for being so paranoid. I've really never known love like this, and I just want to know what someone else thinks. Thanks for your time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Tue, 10-24-2006 - 7:54pm

You might check out the Betrayed Spouses message board for assistance, as these ladies can advise.

If you have a hunch that something is up, you might want to check out your husband's cell phone records and look at his email to get clarification.