Impatience-I always confess my love 1st
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| Sat, 03-11-2006 - 1:42am |
I always had bad luck with relationships, maybe it is because of the impatient gene I inherited from my mother. Every time I get infatuated with someone, I confess my feelings to them, and always get a polite reply of "go away".
Of course, I learned from all those nightmares I had in the past. For the past few years I only accepted date invitations from others, never daring to fall for my impatience again.
I am a pure extrovert though, and have a fairly good judge of people's characters; which lead me to have many wonderful friends in University.
And here comes the problem; I've fell in 'like' with my good buddy.
He complimented me on my "amazing personality", and told me that it's great meeting such a person like me; my understanding of people(which gave me neverending love for Psychology) amazes him and he said that I am one of those optimists who could change people's lives. He walked me home when we stayed out late; he tagged along with my shopping sprees, my love for Dance Dance Revolution.. And admitted that he never had so much fun in the past two years.
But when I joked with him about him hitting on me, he didn't say much.
Should I tell him my feelings for him?

Hi there!
You have noticed a pattern in your past relationships, which is great..But why not learn from them? If they worked for you then thats ok but they havent..So, why not try and do things differently..and many may argue this, but men love the chase - thats how they are.
The best u could do is show him you love spending time with him. Give him subtle hints that he is one of the nicest guys u have met and any girl would be lucky to have him etc..Dont come across too heavy though..Show him you like him but dont tell him.
This is just my way of self-preservation..and believe me, if he already knows you are an amazing person, it will only take a little encouragement to make him make a move!If he doesnt, its his loss!
Good luck! x