initiate

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Registered: 02-01-2006
initiate
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Thu, 02-15-2007 - 11:57pm
Recently me and this guy have been dating a bit. We knew each other when we were younger but we recently started dating. I have gone out with him about 4 times angone to visit him and he visited my school neary around 4 times. He is sweet and kindy shy but he is a year younger than me, 20, and he has had like one serious or two serious girlfriends. Hes really sweet romantic and I like him a lot. We get along great. The only problem is that i dont feel like he wants to jump on me and kiss me or much. Like, we get back to my room from dinner and he doesnt initiate a kiss so much so i make a move for it..You think hes shy or nervous or just doesnt wanna move too fast? he made a move when was more buzzed and drinking and seems much more forward with alcohol. I want to feel desired and hot. I want HIm to kiss me. i feel like I am always the one so far. It's been only a month, and maybe hes moving slow. But shouldnt he wanna be all over me and kiss me when the door is shut? I wanna be pursued and feel desired and in his control sometimes. Help? Im seeing him tomorrow for the night at his school and we will be drinking.
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Registered: 12-29-2006
In reply to: tunatartar
Fri, 02-16-2007 - 1:10am
you should tell him this i think... maybe he's getting too used to you making the first move, and thinks you're only comfortable that way? if he knows you want this then maybe he'll be less shy or nervous about it.
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Registered: 02-01-2006
In reply to: tunatartar
Fri, 02-16-2007 - 10:45am
maybe i should let him do the moves and just hold off the sexual part for now
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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: tunatartar
Fri, 02-16-2007 - 12:43pm
Why not just talk to him about how you're feeling? It will set a good tone for open communication in your relationship...