insecure bf

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Registered: 11-28-2004
insecure bf
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Sun, 11-28-2004 - 9:01pm
My bf and I have been dating for about six months. Before we were dating I had been single and just dated around. I have guy friends which I enjoy hanging out with and spending time. My bf doesnt want me hangingout with other guys he gets jealous. Is is considered inappropiate to go out with other guys who are just friends and have been for over a year if there arent other girls coming? My bf also thinks I would get jealous about his having female friends but personaly I trust him and dont care if he hangs out with other girls. I Also my bf sometimes gets mad over stupid things (he pouts when he is mad). I am just wondering weather I am wasting my time with someone who is too conservative for me because I would miss him dearly if he were not here.
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Registered: 11-27-2004
In reply to: ladyinorange
Sun, 11-28-2004 - 10:46pm
Yes you are wasting your time for him...Because trust is the most important in a relationship. I was like you 5 years ago...Dated around and had guy friends wanna hang out until I met my bf...I too trusted my bf..but he just gets jealous...Now heere is my mistake, I chose my bf rather than hanging out with my guy friends...I understand that you trust him but he doesnt see it that way, it will not change...Now Im barely getting out of this relationship, finally...its hard because those times I spent with him were just a waste...But the important lesson is "Friends will always be there no matter what, but not your bf" because they come and go...Until you meet Mr Perfect...
How would you feel if one of your guy friend stop hanging out with you just because he has an insecure gf????