interested? how to let him know I am
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| Tue, 03-02-2004 - 5:03pm |
What got me thinking that he might actually be interested is one day we had the usual morning chit chat and I asked how he was and he said he was fighting some cold and he was running out of tissues. So I thought I would be nice (and a flirting a little) and brought him a box of tissues. When I walked out for lunch he had a red rose waiting for me as a thank you. (He was out to lunch and apparently told the guy covering his lunch to give it to me). It was the day before valentine's day and I work in a big metropolitian area where flowers are readily available. I don't know if he was just being nice or if he was trying to let me know he was interested. I called him later that day to say thank you, and he said (jokingly) to not tell my boyfriend because he didn't want some guy coming in to beat him up for it. I wasn't sure how to respond because I am recently seperated and still legally married. He has seen me a million times and it really threw me off because I thought he could see that I had a ring on my finger. (I just laughed it off because I didn't know what to say and then he had to go). So is that a clear signal he is interested?
I would like to let him know I am interested too, but I am afraid that the marriage issues will totally scare him off and I definitely don't want to do that. So how do I send a subtle signal without making myself look like I am desperate or like I am rebounding? how do I handle the previous relationship thing without sending him the other direction?
