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Interested or pushy?
| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 3:12pm |
I had been talking to a guy online for about a month, and very recently met up with him. I would really like to see him again. He said the same of me, was very complimentary, talked about "the next time" and such. At another point in the evening, he said he "likes to take things slow, just hang out and if something happens, great". We have continued to talk online since.
I am very interested in spending more time with him, but if he wants to take things slow, I don't want to scare him off. What is the best way to show him how interested I am without being pushy?
Edited 5/3/2004 4:12 pm ET ET by squeevil

I'm talking from experience. There's my 2 cents. : )
I don't know if that changes anything or not...
Edited 5/3/2004 5:28 pm ET ET by zurah
Anyway, thanks for your input. I know I am getting ahead of myself in worrying about where this is going after only one date. I know he is very busy (not an excuse, just a factor) and I'm trying to just take things as they come. Sometimes it helps to hear someone else reinforce it.
Thanks again!
Edited 5/4/2004 12:24 pm ET ET by squeevil