intrested or no?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2003
intrested or no?
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Sun, 08-13-2006 - 9:37pm

so I met up with a guy yesterday from match.com. We went to an amusement park, we originally made plans to meet up last saturday nite at his house but I wasn't digging that so I cancelled! We met at Denny's and I picked him up, arrived right when the park opened. The first couple of hours we really didn't say much we were both shy, so we rode rides for awhile, got a drink and sat down to talk. We talked for a couple of hours talked about anything and everything. Conversation flowed pretty good (or so I thought). Rode some more rides left the park at 5, got some dinner at a little hole in the whole bbq place (food was good). I took him back to his car. He said thanks for coming out he had fun. Told me maybe if I see you online tonite I will talk to you if not maybe tommorrow, or maybe the day after that. I said cool.

So I was talking to a friend of mine about it, he suggested that I should call him and just chit chat with him that it wouldn't hurt anything. So I took his advice. He picked up the phone we talked for 20 mins. Talked about this and that. I casually brought up that we could maybe go hang out again. He's like yeah maybe. He asked me what part of town I lived in (he asked me this befor when we first started talking. He lives a little over an hour from me). I told him, he said well next time Im down there for work we can maybe meet up for lunch before you have to go to work.

So thing is. I'm thinking because he told me that he's not intrested. I don't want to push anything, he seems really nice but we like I said were both shy. He's 34 and I'm 25.

Where should I go from here?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:24pm

Leave it alone.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2003
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:34pm

Thanks for your opinion vexer! You're right I'm going to leave it alone. As far as who paid for what, I bought my own ticket. He has a season pass so the parking was free, I paid for my drink and dinner.

I'm just going to chalk this up as another dating experience that's gone down the drain. If he wants to call me or talk me online then he can.

You know it's just frustrating as all get out though. From my end it seemed like it was a fun time. Who knows and who really cares.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:39pm
Hey, it's not to say that it wasn't a fun time.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2003
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:47pm
That's true, but I'm just going to leave it alone! You guys are right the ball is in his court now.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 12:22pm
Let him make the next contact.
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