Issues with his ex

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Issues with his ex
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Tue, 01-24-2006 - 11:25am

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Edited 1/24/2006 7:02 pm ET by lush1978
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Tue, 01-24-2006 - 12:33pm
I think it's pretty odd that he doesn't tell his ex about you. Could he possibly be keeping the door open to her? Now you say you've been "dating" the guy for 6 months. Are you two exclusive or are you both allowed to see other people. If you're allowed to see other people, then he is technically free to date her or anyone else for that matter. Now if you're in a committed relationship with him, then it's time you two have a chat.

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Tue, 01-24-2006 - 3:23pm
Thanks for your reply. We are exclusive and i think you're right...it's time we had a talk. I'm just not really comfortable about this at all.
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Tue, 01-24-2006 - 3:45pm
I would have a talk. When you're exclusive, you and he need to put certain issues out on the table. Otherwise, you'll end up putting up with strange behaviour and will be upset about it. I learned the hard way that sweeping issues under the rug, just allows the problem to grow into a big one.

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Thu, 01-26-2006 - 1:37pm
Was there a question here?
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